There is no "system" to bring them together. Historically only revolutions and mainly violent protests have helped.

It's A LOT more stressful than that :)

"I need to start use my own lungs to breathe and if I can't do that I'm dead in a minute". Followed by trying to get a milk from a mother who often doesn't yet produce any... Using the eyes to look around is WAY down the list :)

> the bottom engine sections starts to glow from the heat

It's fuel burning, not glow. Speed is too low for glowing; glow would start at the edge, not from deep inside the skirt etc.