A very common modern setup is PostgreSQL, C#/.NET, Linux & using JetBrains Rider for the IDE
You just described the startup I'm at. All devs are on Arm64 MacBooks and we deploy to Arm64 AWS T4g Linux instances. I'm all VS Code, others are primarily Rider.
.NET is a highly underrated platform for backend; it always puzzles me when teams think about moving from TypeScript to Rust or Go instead of C# because it seems a much smaller leap from TypeScript.
Worst part for me about Go is how exceptions are usually basically handled the way that they would be with a Result<T> in Rust, but without an actual Result<T> type. That and how nulls are handled, feels like the worst of both worlds.
.NET is a highly underrated platform for backend; it always puzzles me when teams think about moving from TypeScript to Rust or Go instead of C# because it seems a much smaller leap from TypeScript.