The services that enable the things you desire also create harm (Amazon's problems are well documented, digital government services are often a divide that sometimes exclude freedom-minded indivuduals who don't use a "mainstream" OS, to name a couple).
AI has the potential to make the situation much worse, as many laypeople confer it an air of "authority" or "correctness" that it's not really owed. If we're not careful, we'll have an AI-driven Idiocracy, where people become so moronic that nobody can do anything about the system when it takes a harmful action.
Sure, there are trade offs and risks to everything and everything new. Cars made us move faster, but can pollute and cause injury or death. But summing all of those things together, I would not pick any other time before now to live. And same with software development.
I'm sure factory owners said the same thing in England in the early 1800s.
It needs to be noted that the average person's lot didn't improve until 150 years later. There's no reason why technology can't be decided by democratic means rather than shoved in our faces by people that just want to accumulate wealth and power.
AI has the potential to make the situation much worse, as many laypeople confer it an air of "authority" or "correctness" that it's not really owed. If we're not careful, we'll have an AI-driven Idiocracy, where people become so moronic that nobody can do anything about the system when it takes a harmful action.