I've said it before, all "opinionated software" is abrasive, the scale is really how much you notice it based on if you like the faces and decisions involved. It'd be non-controversial to the HN crowd, but there are plenty of developers are happy to trash any GPL/share-alike project on the same grounds.
I don't know you, so this is not directed at you. However, this is the kind of line I hear from abrasive people defending their unwillingness to temper what they say.
It's perfectly possible to have opinionated software (take JUnit or TeX, for example) that simply performs its task in an opinionated way without its authors belittling competitors or being disrespectful to others whose work doesn't fulfill their view of how things should be.
I've said it before, all "opinionated software" is abrasive, the scale is really how much you notice it based on if you like the faces and decisions involved. It'd be non-controversial to the HN crowd, but there are plenty of developers are happy to trash any GPL/share-alike project on the same grounds.